Have you ever tried to approach a girl only to crash and burn?
A lot of the time its hard enough to get the confidence to approach women, but then the only thing that comes out of your mouth is "Hi" or "Your really pretty" or something along those lines.
I am very familiar with this because I used to have a lot of troubles when trying to approach women. I would basically freeze when I saw a pretty woman. Then, when I did talk to her I would say the same things that she has probably heard a hundred times from every guy who has already approached her.
Don't do what other guys do
Listen, most girls (especially the pretty ones) are really tired of hearing the same thing from every guy. I mean think about it. Imagine YOU are a woman for a moment, now think about every guy approaching you in the same way
Chances are, unless you have an unusual physical attraction, It will all blur together and be very boring. So before you even approach girls think about how most guys would approach her, then don't do that.
Be somebody who is interesting, attention-getting, and confident.
Actually, confidence might play the biggest role. Enough confidence can make even the most mundane approaches work. When approaching girls, having the mentality of "fate has put a beautiful girl in front of me, now lets see if you have a personality to match" might help you out a lot.
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