When it comes to dating one of the hardest things for a man is getting the relationship off the ground. If you think back I'm sure there are hundreds of missed opportunities where you could've had amazing relationships with beautiful women but you just didn't have the guts or knowledge to ask her out. This article covers some quick tips for men on how to ask a girl out.
Approach her with confidence.
One of the first and worst mistakes the guys make is failing to approach a younger woman with confidence when they are going to ask her out. Girls don't like wimpy guys, and if you are confident about approaching her and asking her out how is she supposed to be confident about going out with you. The number one reason guys don't have confidence when asking a girl out his fear of rejection. But remember this, if you are confident when approaching her and she does end up telling you no she will do it in a way where you will not feel bad and she will think about that confident guy that asked her out for days, weeks and months to come. If you approach a girl with confidence, you may not get a date the first time but there's a good chance she will come back to you later on down the road.
Tell her you are interested.
Most guys make things harder than they need to be when asking a girl out. Save all of the cheesy pickup lines and just simply be direct. It's perfectly okay to say "hi I'm David, I couldn't help but notice you, I really like your style could I get your phone number so I can ask you out sometime?"
Dating is really not that difficult and when you keep it simple and tell her you are interested in her without beating around the bush you are shifting the odds in your favor dramatically.
Be yourself.
When it comes to asking a girl out don't worry so much about presenting yourself in the best light. You would be amazed at the BS stories the guys come up with when they first talked to a woman and the worst part is, if they actually do get a date it's not too far after that the girl's figures out that the guy was lying about who he is or what he does. Just be yourself, but be confident, fun and sincere about what you like about her.
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