Break ups aren't always preventable but that does not mean that they are permanent. If you have recently lost your special lady to a fight that ended up in a falling out, you can still get her to love you again. Women are, by nature, complicated to deal with because of their emotional structure, so you will need to be careful about the techniques you use. Here are some special tricks you can use to make her give you a second chance and stay with your forever.
1.Her feelings are to be respected.
Women are built to be emotional. If she lashes out at you with hurtful words, take some time to absorb them without hitting her back with insults. More words from you will only lessen your chances of getting her back since you may end up making more mistakes. She may be the type who cries a lot, or the type who struggles with keeping it all in.
Here a truth that won't change - every break up is meant to be hurtful, regardless of how a couple reacts. Both of you may feel resentment, hatred, frustration, indecisions, and retaliation may all surface, but resist the urge to do the latter. If you approach her with heat, you will only clash and make it impossible for her to take you back.
2. Analyze what went wrong.
Break ups always happen for a reason. You may have done something wrong, she may have had her faults, or the break up may have happened because of the two of you. But if you really want her back, you will need to stop blaming her for anything, or yourself for your wrongdoings. Instead, think about how you contributed to the relationship, including the breakup.
A girl will usually be vocal about her needs and whether they are met. She may have mentioned this before the break up, or may have hinted at it several times during your relationship. Take the time to go over your relationship. If you aren't sure, politely ask her why. You will need to know what went wrong if you want her back for good.
3. Make sure she knows you're there, but don't stay too close.
It may be confusing, but keeping your distance while being there for her is important to balance. If you want her to love you again, you will need to make her feel that you still love her and are there for her. If you are totally absent, she will think you have moved on.
Respect her alone time and the space that she needs. If she says she is not ready to talk, back off and let her be. You might scare her farther away if you smother her with wooing. She needs to know you are present for her, but are respectful of your need for some quiet.
Men and Women behave and express their emotions differently. When your ex says she doesn't want you in her life, she probably is confused still but may need to see that you still care. Techniques on how to get her back for good may vary depending on the cause of the break up and both your personalities. However, these fundamentals will always work.
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