An important part of talking to a girl is learning how to develop trust between the two of you. Every single day an attractive female is approached by numerous men, many of which are not thinking anything that is good. They are only thinking with their nether regions when it comes to her. So when you approach a girl you need to learn how to develop rapport and build a connection between the two of you quickly if you are to have any chance in talking to her and having it go anywhere.
What is rapport, well it is basically being on the same wavelength with a girl. It is being in sync, or in its simplest form it is having a person like you. So how do you get to the point that you have built rapport and she has begun to feel a connection? Well there are basically three types of people that we like. Figure out which of these you are a best for when it comes to the woman you want to talk to and you will find that building rapport is quite simple.
The first type of person that we like is the person who is a lot like us. Whether it is musical tastes, food preferences or the ideals that make up our character, we are drawn to people who are like us in some way. Figure out what the two of you share in common and then talk about that. If you truly have a common interest then it shouldn't be hard to build rapport with her.
The second type of person that we enjoy being around is the person that we admire for some reason. Now this is a slippery slope because you definitely don't want to sit and brag about yourself. Nothing is a bigger turn off to a woman than a man who constantly brags on his achievements. What you can do is mentioned something very briefly and if she asks questions then give her a little more information about it. Always being careful that she leads the conversation in that area so that you do not appear to be bragging.
The final type of person that we like are the people who like us back. I am sure you heard your Mom or some other person say that if you want friends, be a friend. The rapport building process is very reciprocal in that we want to be around people that we can sense enjoy our company. The people that laugh at our jokes and smile when we smile. So use this principle when you are talking to a woman. Learn how to respond in a way to her that lets her know that you like her and have an interest. At the same time try to not appear overly eager.
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