Get Your Ex Back With Some Challenge And Pride

Get Your Ex Back With Some Challenge And Pride


While you attempt to get your ex back you may feel like you need to take some unnecessary actions like begging on your hands and knees. You may feel that it is necessary to humble yourself and lose every bit of pride that you invaluably have. The breakup may have gone a long way towards further hurting your pride as it is, there is no need to further hurt your self image. There is no reason that you shouldn't be able to get your ex back with ease.

You may feel that you need to go begging back to him/her but there are things that you can do that won't make that necessary. If you got dumped that was enough to hurt the way you look at yourself. If you broke up with your ex then, realizing you made a huge mistake, you may feel that you have to go crawling back to ask for forgiveness. That may not be what you need to do to get your ex back.

If he/she broke up with you,try to recall about what it was that drew your ex to you in the first place. What was the attitude and some other special and inherent qualities you had then? How was your spirit? If you want to rekindle that love that was once there, try putting all the elements back that caused the fire in the first place. Whatever you do, let yourself be visible to him/her. Let your ex realize that you are still the same person that he/she fell in love with once. Let your ex also know that you know he/she sees you. Be obvious that you are that person again. If he doesn't notice you, someone else just might and that might not be a bad thing. You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink. If there is another horse there, they may be more appreciative of what you have to offer.

If you broke up with your ex, and you honestly believe that it was just a plain mistake, let your ex know. Let him/her know that your ex has every right to be mad but try to tell and let him/her understand that you don't expect to have him/her come back. Tell your ex, “Whatever happens from this point on is fine with me. I just wanted to let you know that I made a terrible mistake with you and I'm truly sorry if I hurt you.” Ask for forgiveness, but don't beg for it. Begging is not a good way to get your ex back.

Also, don't ask to be reunited. You should let him/her know that you don't expect a second chance and you possibly don't deserve one but you truly hope that things had worked out differently. Say your nice piece and then walk away from your ex. If he/she is interested in getting back together with you or is curious about what you are trying to do then let him/her make the move. It takes strength,courage and character to admit a mistake and an equal amount of it to accept the consequences. If he/she is as special as you believe him/her to be, he/she will notice what you have just done and will want to be your boyfriend/girlfriend once again.

You may find it a big challenge to get your ex back. If he/she is the one and the result is supposed to be marriage or an eternal relationship then it will eventually happen. The trick is to get him/her involved and make it seem like he/she is pursuing you. Make him/her want you, again. As hard as it is to do and as humiliated as you could feel, just know that there is a way to get your ex back and have some challenge and pride doing it.

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