Ways To Win Over A Guy

Ways To Win Over A Guy     

If you are tired of being alone and have taken an interest in a man you will want to keep reading to find ways to win over a guy.

On the outside men are usually visual beings and if they see something they like they will try to get it. Because of this they like women who show off their femininity and are well put together.

A woman who takes pride in her appearance will attract more men than one who doesn't. Men like women who take the time to look their best at any time.

This visual aspect is just the first of many ways to win over a guy.

When that all important first meeting takes place and he makes his approach you will want to be sure to maintain eye contact with him while he is speaking to you. If you are constantly looking away he will take that as you not being interested in him and he then will lose interest in you very quickly.

If the initial approach goes well the next thing is your smile. Eye contact with a nice smile will draw him in even further. You will know that he is even more interested when he stands very close to you.

He may even place his hand on your arm. If he does this, mirror what ever he does and place your hand on his arm as well. Small touches can be big tells regarding how interested he is in you and if you touch him back he will know you are into him as well.

As for conversation, keep things light and do not get into anything overly personal at this first tentative meeting. Anything of importance will come out later when you both get to know each other better.

And never, ever talk about past relationships, even if he asks. Tell him, politely, that you don't want to go there and change the subject.

Be the confident woman you are and never "dumb things down" because you think that's what men want. Men want a strong, confident woman who is comfortable with herself and her life.

Basically the key here is to just be yourself. Do not ever be afraid to show him the real you. If you are into sports and your favorite team is playing cheer as loud as you can when they make a good play. He will see that you have some depth to your personality and have interests of your own.

You are who you are and you should never try to be, or let someone else try to make you be, someone you are not. Nothing good ever comes of this type of arrangement.

If a relationship starts and is based on this type of lie then it is doomed to failure because one or both of you are not being true to yourselves.

Hopefully this article gives good insight into ways to win over a guy so the next relationship you choose to have starts out good and evolves into something that lasts.