Life can seem very bitter when a dear friend works out from us, especially when there is so much love for him or her. But friend don't worry; because you will get him back, and both of you will share the same love you both shared in the past. Now! Is the time to take action if you really want him back?
Admittance: Be ready to admit to your mistake. Admitting to your mistakes will make things seem fine; making it easier for both of you to make up and get along. Also admitting would make him realize that you are ready to do what it takes to make up and reconcile with him.
Don't Blackmail: Most ladies could be desperate enough to want to blackmail their ex. But this is not advised and encouraged as blackmail would not get his attention but only make matter worse. When you resort to blackmail, it simply means that you have gotten into the realm of desperation and aggression. No matter what happens, and no matter how your feelings escalate, don't resort to blackmail. Don't use his mistakes of the past to hunt him all in a bid to get him back.
Be Patient: Patient is a virtue that every woman must possess. You must be patient with him as he takes his time in reconsidering everything. The process of reconciliation, is not something that should be rushed rather you must learn the art of endurance, and learning how to be patient. Nothing should be done in a hurry as you are liable to make mistakes.
Don't Overplay: Try not to overplay the entire strategy. The whole strategy of you getting him back, don't overplay it or over do it because this would make him suspicious of your motives. Remember too much of everything is bad, and it could all end badly for you if he eventually finds out. So, my advice is just for you to keep it real and simple. Don't overact and just continue to be yourself.
What's New? Find out what is new in his life before you decide to get involve in his life. using this "what's new" idea will really help you in many aspects: it will make you to know is new life style, is recent outing, in general is new character. with this it will be much easier for you because you have already known some new secrets about him, that means you have known is new weak point. Also and most importantly, you must find out if he is already in a relationship in-order to know the right approach to follow towards getting him back.
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